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Tuesday, November 26, 2013

The Real Truth... On Dana and Lara

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If you have been anywhere near a computer or a smart phone in the past few weeks, you probably already know about "The REAL Truth".

My own personal truth is, as an Arab (and more specifically an Arab woman) I have always felt cheated by Arab leadership. Our people are never heard and those who gain enough exposure use archaic (pathetic) and boring approaches to voice their causes (because it's usually their own causes although wrapped in a nice "for the people" package). 

We have become accustomed to the long - oh so terrifyingly long - speeches packed with overused and abused slogans and washed down with a cup of your finest propaganda (which, and this may come to you as a surprise, dear politicians, does not age well - it's propaganda, not wine).

Well, the disappointment ends here, folks:





All Hail The Women with brain, beauty and immaculate English accents!
Did you just see that? 
Did you just hear that?

These women rock!

Not because of their English proficiency which incidentally is an added value when talking to non-Arabs (no, we're not all bearded terrorists who speak like Bond villains and therefore must be evil). 

Unlike the usual  "no, that is not true, Israel is evil, look, they are killing our children" speech that we keep hearing and although true but never built on clear, intelligent argumentation; this video actually answers specific propaganda with wit and facts. Facts. Facts. Not just slogans and arab nationalism cheers. We are not robots who have been repeating the same thing decade after decade. We are human beings who have been fighting for our right to exist decade after decade. 

And they are women. Beautiful, intelligent, educated and well-read young women. Yes, it may sound like good PR to have a gorgeous face associated with the Palestinian cause, but mostly, to me, it is more than that. It shatters the stereotype that Arab women are submissive victims at the hands of their abusive men, societies and religions. We all know, far too well, that domestic and women abuse remain continuous problems worldwide (unfortunately). So for the West to patronize us about it, over and over again, depicting our Arab women as weak, uneducated and unable to fight for their own rights is simply laughable. Look at yourselves first. And look at our women. In the above video. Not all Arab women are that well-spoken and educated? True. Neither are all Western women. Or men for that matter.

Ok, clearly, I am a fan. 

And I could not resist contacting Dana Dajani and Lara Sawalha to find out more "The REAL Truth" and the brilliant people behind it.



So who are Dana and Lara?

Dana Dajani: My name is Dana Dajani, my father is Palestinian from Jerusalem and my mother’s parents are Syrian/Gazan. Born in Jordan, raised between the US and the Middle East, I studied theatre in the United States and received my bachelor’s of fine arts in Chicago. I moved to Dubai two and a half years ago to help promote the performing arts in the Middle East.

Lara Sawalha: My name is Lara Sawalha and I'm a professional actress by trade, trained at Italian Conti Academy of Performing Arts in London. My mother is British, but she likes to say she's as Arab as they come, even with her blonde hair and blue eyes, and my father is Jordanian. I am fortunate to have them both be in the arts.

Photo courtesy of Dana Dajani



How did you get into films? Was it your very first experience with that medium? 

LS: My mother is a writer and my father is an actor/director/writer, which is where I found my passion for all things dramatic. My first proper stage appearance was with my father performing a politically satirical play, which is his forte, when I was 17 and the road was paved from there. I've been working in theatre and film for a while, but this specific genre (the YouTube clip) is a first for me and hopefully not my last ;)

DD: My passion is theater but I started working on films in Chicago and have probably acted in over 30 short films. This film was my first time working on a white screen interacting with animation!



How did the two of you meet and have you collaborated on common projects in the past? 

DD: Lara and I met on set at Kharabeesh studios in Amman in April 2012. We had never known about each other, but we ended up working together on another project for Bath Bayakha soon after, and have plans to collaborate on more work soon!

Photo courtesy of Dana Dajani



Why did you feel the need to answer Danny Ayalon's ad? Israeli and Zionist Propaganda isn't a new phenomenon, so why now? What was it with Ayalon's ad that made you tick? 

DD: I saw the video when it first came out two years ago and thought, how can there be such straight-up propaganda disseminated in our day and age, as if it was regular creative content for consumption? But honestly, all it takes is a good script and a production team and you can make anything happen. It angered me but I knew that personally I didn’t have the resources to properly respond. Lara and I were lucky to be presented with a good, punchy script, and a willing team to make it happen, so the question became why not? If not now, when, and who?

LS: I hadn’t seen the video until I got approached with the script, and when I saw it she I compelled to answer. We were given a chance to present an alternative view and we stepped up to the challenge.



What was the goal behind this casting? I'm loving the fact that Ayalon is massively arrogant and pompous and instead of having someone of his "caliber" speak to him, you opted for the totally opposite and in turn managed to ridicule him even more. 

DD and LS: Often times the Palestinian resistance is mostly comprised of young men, and overall this whole conflict is plagued by men- “old men dreaming wars for young men to die in”. We added a feminine element, we spoke for the youth. And at the end of the day, it’s all about public appeal: here were two females talking, more or less, like men, a bit cheeky and totally confident. It worked.



Where was the video produced and why? 

DD: The script was written in Ramallah, Visualizing Palestine is an international company, and Kharabeesh is in Amman, Standub.com is based in Dubai. I was living in Dubai, Lara was living in Amman. So we all gathered in Amman to make the video over two days. We shot on a white screen in one of Kharabeesh’s studios, using a simple Mark D7 (I think). We had lapel mics, and we macygvered a sweet-ass teleprompter out of an ipad, a reflective piece of glass and a podium.



That sounds so cool! How long did the production take and what tools did you use? Can you tell me more about the technical crew behind the film and how they worked? 

DD: Lara and I performed pro bono, it was a passion project for everyone. I’m pretty sure the animators worked pro bono too, which is why it took a year and a half to edit. As for Kharabeesh post production tools and team.

Jamil at standub.com, who directed the piece insisted "My aim is to highlight the fact that the writing and research was done by VP and Standub and the execution by kharabeesh. It was a group effort.

The 'nuances' and comedy was thought of and directed by the people from these 3 companies. The cost is that of research, scripting, actors, filming in a studio with green screen, editing, and then seperately days and days of animation and fact checking.

The point is, although this was a collaboration, modern day technology means that all you people need is a camera with some lighting and a laptop to make it happen. The important part is a) making it factually correct and b) getting the 'tone' right with people who understand humour. And we were lucky to have that behind and in front of the camera in this case.

The elements that went into producing this video were thought through and intentional. We would like to encourage others to collaborate and answer fiction with fact".

Photo courtesy of Dana Dajani



Now the content is brilliant! Who was behind the research and the script? It is so well written, not crowded with information and yet informative enough to discredit Ayalon and any previously heard lie about Palestine or Israel. 

I believe the writer would like to remain anonymous. Here’s something he wrote:

"Let them not know who's behind it, which is what I would prefer, hence why I did not take credit. People fear what they don't know. I want the Israeli government to fear that there is a growing movement of young Palestinians ready to respond to their rubbish propaganda. In a recent report issued by an Israeli think tank, The Reut Institute, they concluded that the BDS movement was the greatest threat to the existence of Israel because it was not one body they could target. Rather, it was a loose coalition of individuals and organizations united by ideology with no commander-in-chief.

Ayalan's argument was that because a Palestinian nation did not exist, Israel did nothing illegal. That's like saying nothing illegal was done to native american's because they didn't have an official 20th century style "nation state". What we were essentially saying was that we didn't invent our identity homie - Palestinians, the identity of the people who lived on this land, always existed. Our self-determination - and Israel's denial of our self-determination - is not contingent on any past form of "nation" status. To quote Shakespeare "What is the city but the people?

Except we chose to say this in a different way. No one has ever responded to official Israeli government propaganda like this. We just upped the ante".



I love the fact that for once, Arabs (and women at that, the stereotyped gender of weakness and submission) with immaculate English address the Western world. We can agree that PR-wise, the Arab world hasn't done very well. This video is a fantastic respond to all of that. At one point, you make fun of Ayalon's English accent which to me is so funny because Israelis love to emphasize their "Western" side when talking to the West and of course, directly or indirectly make fun of Arab politicians, leaders and general people for being or sounding too "Arab", as if being Arab is a characteristic rather than an identity. And a ridiculous characteristic at that, a characteristic that they feel are entitled to mock because it inferior and a reflection of terrorism (if we are not all white, English speaking folks, then we must be terrorists). How and why did you decide to do the same by mimicking the Israeli accent and what were your goals? 

DD: Honestly, it wasn’t a planned malicious attack. I was getting carried away in the moment of talking. What we do for a living a living is PLAY, so we tried bringing the element of play to more serious content. I’ve honestly been getting a lot of flack from Israeli’s calling me racist. My response is this: check out my comedy on my youtube channel. I make fun of many accents. Watch any good stand up comedian, see how long they go before putting on a character accent. It was all in good fun. And besides, If you cant laugh at yourself, no one will take you seriously.

Photo courtesy of Dana Dajani



The video went viral in a matter of hours, and with good reason. I am also confident the "debate" online must be heating up. What was the response from the Western world. I guess the Arab and Israeli responses are pretty straight forward but I'm wondering how other parties are responding and viewing this? 

LS: Arabs love it, they send us lots of praise, “we’re proud of you, bterfa3o il ras”, for a while we were getting a lot of support mail. Some Israeli’s have reached out to tell us that we “cannot change the course of history”. They’ve also dedicated blog posts to bitching about this video and the comments are pretty hateful. There was a British Pakistani ex-Muslim pro Zionist who blasted me on twitter, and now she follows me.

DD: One blogger actually investigated us and went so far as to call me a “whore” because I am a model and “Hamas would disapprove of my photographs”. For a few days it was pretty stressful because all of my social media sites were being trolled by Israelis posting really hateful and disgusting things (“you’re an arab, this is what I think of you.” then posting a link of a Syrian girl being decapitated). I’ve also gotten responses from Americans, Spaniards, and people from the Netherlands, thanking us for making this video and opening their eyes.



If someone decides to poke at your video and its content, do you plan to retaliate? 

DD and LS: So there have been blog posts and a debunking video. Also someone has asked to do a response video for another film. I don’t know if the whole team will be involved. But we definitely want to keep up the energy now that this is out.



Your video has done tremendous good in spreading information that people tend to forget or don't even know. Do you plan on making more of these videos to educate the West about our issues? 

DD and LS: We would love to do another one, even in response to the rest of his videos. Because this is fresh, it’s the most commotion that’s happened about Palestine in a while. Usually it’s the daily article on something or other being destroyed. So we’d like to keep generating creative content about the causes dearest to our hearts.

Photo courtesy of Dana Dajani



Any final words to Ayalon? 

DD and LS: We’ll be back.

I'm fed up to the ears with old men dreaming up wars for young men to die in.  ~George McGovern

One determined person can make a significant difference; a small group of determined people can change the course of history. ~ Sonia Johnson



As you're about to click away from this site, don't forget, sharing is caring, so keep the momentum going and help spreading "The REAL Truth" all around you.





And stay tuned for more by Dana Dajani as she prepares to release her upcoming video:
Love Letters From Palestine
A Poem Filmed in Bethlehem   



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Saturday, January 14, 2012

FIGHT RAPE in focus

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January 14, 2012 : FIGHT RAPE PROTEST

For all photos and live tweets from the demo, follow #FIGHTRAPE or @Nasawiya on Twitter.


It may have been raining but the citizens of Lebanon, women and men, of all ages and of all walks of life were shining in the streets of Beirut!


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"Both Minister Faisal Karami and Mufti Kabbani said no to #protectwomen law.
#FightRape demo reacts."
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For all photos and live tweets from the demo, follow #FIGHTRAPE or @Nasawiya on Twitter. Beirut.com also posted an album on Facebook.




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Friday, January 13, 2012

TOMORROW, RAIN OR SHINE

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Are you gearing up for tomorrow?

Rain or shine, we will be marching for Human Rights, for Women's Rights and for Lebanon. Will you be there? 

I will not go through all the reasons why again. I believe I have covered most of what was close to my heart in my previous post. 

So if you are indeed preparing yourself for January 14, take a quick look at the artwork below. It may be of use to you or your friends. 


Talented designer, Nadine Chahine, has created posters for the protest, my favorite being: 

Source: ArabicType

Make sure to check her blog and take a look at all the designs she made. If you have the chance/time, print them and come armed with banners tomorrow!

Also, check these two Infographics by Nasawiya as they contain useful, compelling information (click on the image for a larger view):

Infographic Source: Nasawiya
Infographic Source: Nasawiya


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Oh, and yes, we know. Today is Friday the 13th. If you are going to spend the day Tweeting and Facebooking about the Horror and Fear that this day brings; just remember, for some women, every day is Fear Day.




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Saturday, January 7, 2012

One Week To Go

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Nasawiya is calling on all citizens to take the streets this Saturday January 14, 2012 and appeal for the reform of Lebanese Rape Laws, and Marital Rape Laws in particular.

The meeting point will be the Ministry of Interior in Beirut (near Sanayeh Park). The March will start at 12:00 PM all the way to the Parliament Building in Nejmeh Square.

Source: Nasawiya

It would not be the first time responsible citizens, activists and Human Rights supporters mobilize for change in Lebanon. 

Some commenters on Facebook have hinted that such protests have proven to be useless in the past and do not lead to practical reforms. That may be true at this point in time. The government may keep turning a deaf ear to our demands. And it is probably what those in power want. Keep ignoring us until we get tired of ever asking for anything.

However, it is no excuse to just sit idly and wait. Wait for what? For whom? If we do not take charge and try to instigate change in some way, who will?

By sitting on the sidelines, we would be effectively saying "that is not an important issue and we do not care" and more tragically, we would be in actuality revoking any right we have to object or even nag about that matter now or in the future.

Taking a stand is the first step towards actual actions and change.

Source: Nasawiya

If enough people can clearly demonstrate their demands, then it will be much harder for any authority to ignore those demands. And by extension, to remain a legitimate authority. Those in power, whom we have elected, have a duty to listen to what we say and to implement the will of the majority.

And we must grab any opportunity, such as January 14 to show them we are indeed a majority.  

Women Rights are sometimes misunderstood as solely a feminist fight, instigated for and by women. That could not be farther from the truth. Feminist groups may sometimes be the leading forces behind such protests but they are not the only ones concerned with such issues. And feminism is not solely reserved for women either.

Source: Nasawiya

Women Rights, just like Children Rights, Migrants Rights and any other basic Human Rights concern mankind as a whole.

They are rights, but also duties, for all, equally. 

That is why responsible Lebanese men must also join this cause.

Our culture has been favoring an image of masculinity which is based on the subjugation of women. It is (mis)understood that men can only express their virility and manhood by overpowering women.

That is of course a cruel myth and real men can and must stand against violence in all its forms and express and even empower their selves through respect which is not the same as fear.

Men who do not care to take a stand against rape may not be rapists, may not even be violent, but they would be silently (and even though indirectly) condoning sexual violence. It is as simple as that.

Instead, the entire population should initiate a new culture, one that is built on equality and respect.

A culture that teaches our young daughters, our sisters, our mothers even, that they are entitled to freedom and most importantly safety. Intellectual, spiritual and physical freedom and safety.

We should educate them to understand that violence in any form is unacceptable, ever, and that there could never be any valid reason to defend or excuse abuse. That silence is violence. And that each and every one of us has the duty to fight for these values.

Source: Nasawiya

A woman is not the private property of her father, brother, husband or son. Just like a man is no one else's property.

Freedom and safety. To be. For all.

Old stereotypes that facilitate and even encourage violence must be broken.

Violence, sexual or otherwise, can happen to anyone and both men and woman can be victims of abuse.

And because most offenders are men, they must play an even bigger role in breaking such stereotypes and vicious cycles both by actively taking part in the education of those around them but also by getting involved in political and social protests to defend what is right.

They must not only agree to never commit such violence but also never accept, condone or stay silent about it either. And of course, it is their responsibility to show, prove and challenge other men to recognize that power is not a result of oppression and fear.

As a woman, as the mother of a one-year old daughter, as the mother-to-be of a son who will join us in a few months, I cannot but be concerned.

My daughter cannot ever think it is OK for a woman to be inferior and submissive to a man. My son cannot ever think it is OK to subjugate or overpower women.

They must learn they are both equal under my roof. And under the law. Provided this law is indeed equal to both of them. That is all I can ask for. Pride and honor for all my children.

So it is not only for us we are taking a stand. It is for the generations to come. So that one day, they do not end up looking at us in shame, asking why and how we let this happen.

In a nutshell, by joining the March on Saturday, you will be participating in building a small but significant part for a unified, fair nation.




More details can be found on Nasawiya and Facebook's page for the protest.





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Tuesday, June 23, 2009

La nature humaine

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En un mot: Effrayante

Et je me demande pourquoi en dépit de tout mon pessimisme, c'est à chaque fois avec de gros yeux que je découvre de nouvelles histoires, plus répugnantes les unes que les autres! Ma naïveté m'étonne moi-même.

Il y a de çà seulement deux semaines à peu près, je suis tombée sur un très bon (comme d'habitude) billet par Mam'zelle Scarlett: Quand internet se met à harceler. L'auteur commence par expliquer le background de l'article "Une gamine américaine qui s’est suicidée après avoir été insultée, vannée sur son physique, bref harcelée sur internet. Elle a vécu cela comme une véritable humiliation puisque ça a fait le tour de son collège. [...] Sans que ce soit sans commune mesure, je me demande parfois si les blogs ne relaient pas certains jugements sur d’autres blogueurs qui pourraient s’apparenter à une forme de lapidation virtuelle."

Pourquoi est-ce que je me rappelle ce billet maintenant?

Ce matin je suis passée par Twitter et j'y ai trouvé un lien qui m'a intriguée: Google in court in Italy.

Au début, j'ai cru que ça devait être encore un truc financier, genre Louis Vuitton qui porte plainte contre Google parceque quand on recherche le mot "Vuitton" on se retrouve avec des liens conduisant à des sites de contrefaçon.

Mais non, cette fois, comme l'explique Steve Vaile, il s'agit d'une affaire de protection de la vie privée. Et de bizutage.

Cette fois, l'humiliation s'est produite non seulement dans le monde virtuel, mais aussi dans le monde réel. Une bande de crétins ont trouvé hilarant de torturer un garçon trisomique! Mais ça ne s'arrête pas là bien entendu. Parcequ'ils sont bien fiers de leur idées géniales, ils filment la séance de bizutage... Non, non, c'est pas finit... Et ils postent la vidéo sur Google. Apparemment, une plainte a été déposée auprès des administrateurs qui ont immédiatement retiré la vidéo en moins de 24 heures. Google se retrouve néanmoins devant la justice.

Je ne vais pas débattre ce sujet mais si vous êtes intéressés, les réponses que j'ai postée sur les deux articles sont ici-bas, en bleu.

Ce que je trouve à la fois triste et inquiétant c'est qu'à chaque fois que l'humanité progresse et de nouvelles découvertes semblent nous mener vers une vie de meilleure qualité, ces mêmes découvertes sont immédiatement transformées en outils de menace.

Aujourd'hui, il est complètement inconcevable de s'imaginer notre vie sans Internet. Les bénéfices sont incontestables.

Mais c'est déjà avec beaucoup de difficultés que la justice, les libertés, les lois et les droits les plus fondamentaux sont protégés, mis en œuvre et accomplis. Alors ajoutons à tout ce petit monde réel, un petit monde virtuel tout aussi vaste, si ce n'est plus. Notre génération ,et probablement celles à venir, a du pain sur la planche.



J’avais vu une émission il y a pas longtemps sur le bizutage virtuel. J’ai été choquée par ce que ces adolescents ont fait et par les arguments qu’ils tiennent pour se justifier! Avant les plus faibles craignaient les cours de récré, mais une fois chez eux, ils étaient en sécurité. Maintenant, il n’y a même plus où se cacher!

J’ai été témoin de quelque chose de similaire sur Facebook récemment. Une copine à moi, militante politique en toute transparence et qui a investit tous ses efforts, Facebook inclus, lors de nos dernières élections (hier) est membre d’un certain parti politique. Ses “status” sur Facebook se sont transformés en campagnes électorales et bon, en général tous ses “amis virtuels” savent d’où elle vient et ce qu’elle pense. Et après tout, elle est sur son propre site et elle est libre d’y écrire ce qu’elle veut. Jusqu’au jour où, grand sacrilège, elle écrit qu’elle n’est pas d’accord avec le leader de son parti en ce qui concerne une décision qu’il a prise (rien de grave, elle compte toujours voter pour lui, mais elle a eu le malheur de donner son avis sur un truc banal) et là, tous ces soit-disant “amis” se sont jetés sur elle comme un lion sur une antilope. Moche la comparaison? Et bein la réalité était pire. Elle a été traitée de traitresse et de je ne sais quelles autres conneries, des étalages d’insultes sur son propre profil! Et le pire c’est qu’elle comptait toujours voter pour le même parti (et c’est ce qu’elle a fait d’ailleurs)!

Moi aussi il m’arrivent de lire des choses qui ne me plaisent pas, mais ma devise c’est: si tu n’as rien de bien ou de neutre (au minimum) à dire, tais-toi quand tu n’es pas chez toi.

Après tout, commenter c’est facultatif.

(c’est aussi un privilège que l’auteur te donne, alors, un peu de respect en retour ne tue personne)

En d’autres termes, oui, donne tes idées honnêtement sur ton site/profil/etc. mais quand tu es chez les autres, respecte-les comme tu voudrais qu’ils te respectent.

Moi aussi parfois je lis des choses qui me donnent envie de gueuler des sauvageries! On a tous des réactions un peu extrêmes parfois face à certains propos. C’est humain. Il faut juste savoir se retenir. C’est aussi et surtout ça être humain.

Ça ne sert à rien d’aller salir les sites des autres avec de la pure méchanceté. Tu n’aimes pas ce que tu lis, clique ailleurs.

Et si tu cherches juste à te battre, tu peux toujours aller sur un forum et débattre autant que tu veux. Il y a des plateformes juste pour ça. Mais sur les sites privés, respecte les gens que tu visitent.


Privacy issues are very important, especially nowadays with all the new means available to all, allowing virtually anyone to break boundaries of decency.


However, I think that the problem here is not privacy.

It is bullying.

Did the fact that potentially millions saw the bullying make this whole experience more harmful? (in this case the video was removed almost immediately assuming millions viewed it could be far fetched, although popular videos spread like the flu! Anyway)...

Does that mean if the bullying was not recorded and shared on Google, it would have been less harmful?

I don't think so. Bullying is as damaging even if it's only known to the bully and the victim.

Public humiliation may add insult to injury, yes, but the real problem, the real crime is the bullying. Whether it is done face to face or online is irrelevant. Just like schools cannot always keep an eye on what's happening in their hallways, Google cannot keep track of every video (or other) posted. Just like in schools, when there's a complaint, actions are taken. And in this case Google acted promptly. Actually they should be thanking Google for revealing the bullies.

Technologies are nothing but carriers. It's people who make the crimes. Nobody would think of suing a knife manufacturer just because someone would have used their product to kill. I've been reading a lot about teenagers bullied on blogs and social networks, and even about one girl who committed suicide after being humiliated online. Apparently she received a large number of insults on her own blog and was so hurt she couldn't take all the cruelty.

Privacy regulations are stated very clearly on all social media sites. When these rules are broken, measures are taken. This is justice.

(I only wish that the bullies being punished would serve as a lesson and would actually deter others from recording and posting such videos, but it would be too good to be true, right? One can only hope that administrators of such sites act promptly and severely... As for hoping that all people exercise some sort of decency - and compassion - and refrain from bullying altogether, well that would be utopia...)



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